A blog reflection by Women’s Center student staff member Shira Devorah
So I really love to talk about sex. It’s probably my favorite topic ever. I used to work for peer health education and with the sexual health committee at UHS here on campus. I’m considering becoming a therapist focusing on sex and relationships within the LGBTQ community.
I’ve always considered myself to be sex positive. But now I’m worried that identifying as such can be problematic.
Sex positivity, in a really bare-bones sense, is a movement that unpacks our taboo notions of sexuality and embraces and promotes human sexuality and personal exploration. There is a huge emphasis on safer sex and informed consent, encouraging respect for people’s personal preferences and boundaries.
I’m definitely here for all of this.
But what are the limitations of this movement?
At surface level, sex positivity is a really cool thing. I feel confident discussing birth control options and my needs with friends and partners. Sex positivity has really allowed me to open myself up as a person and not deny my interest and care about this subject. The fact that this movement exists means that I can one day work in a field devoted to improving sex lives for LGBTQ people.
But sometimes I wonder if I really want to call myself sex positive anymore. Is being sex positive actually accessible to other people? Continue reading