With Mother’s Day still in the air and with UMBC’s 50th Commencement quickly approaching, the Women’s Center is reflecting with immense pride on all of the UMBC mothers and parents who have passed through our doors, used our services, and who have walked across the stage to receive their diplomas.
Our moms and parents, whether they are a part of the Returning Women Student Scholars Programs, use the lactation room, or just come in to the Center to hang out, exemplify the eponymous “grit” that is so integral to UMBC’s identity. UMBC moms balance an enormous amount of responsibilities as they work to advance their careers. From partners to full time jobs and from children to parents in need, moms returning to UMBC face unique challenges and require unique support.
Being a parent and being a university student are often identities that are invisible. As most traditional students create their schedules and hope to get into a class with their favorite professor, UMBC moms and parents are striving to create a schedule that enables them to balance family, school, work, and their own self-care. The Women’s Center is a place where we strive to honor the complexities of being a parent and a student through supportive and dynamic services. Our moms and parents have access to scholarships, professional development workshops, our lactation room, and 1-1 support services.
This Mother’s Day the Women’s Center is proud to recognize the mothers and parents who are a part of the UMBC community and who we are honored to serve everyday. As this year comes to a close, please consider making a donation to the Women’s Center in honor of our 25th Anniversary. Your gift goes on to support UMBC moms and make our services even better.
Check out the stories of two of our graduating Returning Women Scholars on UMBC News:
Jess Myers and Erin Callahan at the Women’s Center’s Returning Women’s End-Of-The-Year Celebration.
Jess Myers and Natacha Ngea at the Women’s Center’s Returning Women’s End-Of-The-Year Celebration.
A post written by Women’s Center student staff member, Carrie Cleveland
I have never been one to label myself a feminist. I think it is because what comes into my mind when I think of feminism is the 1960s – 1970s pop culture version where women were marching in the street and burning their bras (come to find out that this idea in my head is actually a myth). I never really identified with those women, so I pushed the topic to the side. THEN….. I started working here in the Women’s Center.
As a staff member, we are all encouraged to actively learn and one of the ways that I’m doing that is by reading. My background on all things feminism is much more grounded in pop culture than it is theory. I’ve never taken a Gender and Women’s Studies class, like so many of my Women’s Center peers. Sometimes I struggle with the language and the theory so we thought this would be a good way for me to start my learning. Jess suggested that I dip my toe into the feminist blogosphere and start with some more approachable topics and accessible authors. As I’m reading and clicking and getting lost in all things women, I came across this blog written by Jamie Kennedy titled 10 Things Feminist Moms Do Differently Than Any Other Parents.
As I was scrolling, I was pleasantly surprised by what I saw. One of the first ideas the author presents is about disrupting gender norms. Now I have three girls and a VERY handy husband. He’s always building or fixing something so we did not hesitate to get my kids a tool set when they were little. When my husband was beginning a project, my daughter would run down and grab her hammer so she could help her dad with something. Perhaps these experiences are why she sees being a scientist and an astronaut as career options. I never thought of that as feminist idea, more so that she wanted to hang out with her dad. Look at that! I did not even know I was challenging gender norms. Go me! Continue reading
A blog reflection written by Women’s Center student staff member, Carrie Cleveland
For the past ten years I have not had a paying job. For the past ten years I have been home raising children. For the past ten years my boss (or bosses) were little people who required me to tend to their every need. That is not a job where anyone gives you money. There are performance reviews, bonuses, deadlines, and a ton of stress, but no monetary paycheck.
This week I started my first paying job in ten years. I am the newest student staff member at the Women’s Center. I am helping to program the Peer Connections Program for Returning Women Students for the next academic year. Day one was perfect. I was here on time, got my work done and went home without any drama. Day two, well that is a different story.
Two hours into my five hour shift I got a phone call from my daughter’s school. Luckily my husband was home so he could handle the situation, but he seems to forget that I am a work. I am here to do a job and I am not available to answer every question immediately. Now, I am not a globe-trotting mechanical engineer like he is, but this is a job and something that means a great deal to me. So, after a quick little vent to my supervisor, Jess, I realize I may need to set some limits with him.
As I enter the world of a working person again, this means that some things in my home life will change. I feel like it is a good build up to when I have a full time job as a social worker in a couple of years. I also think it is great that my three daughters see that mom can do things that are important to her and that my life does not completely revolve around their lives. So here I am. A working mom. Not a title I ever envisioned for myself, but I kinda dig it.